about her..Part II

Gegirl krentoz dah almost 2years old. cepatnyer masa berlalu!sepanjang dia 2tahun nih mcm2 dia dah achieved..from crawling to walking and jumping! to me dia anak yg bijak *alhamdulillah*..byk benda yang hendak dikongsi cerita tetapi memang masa tidak mengizinkan. ingatkan nak jot down milestone dia, i think i could just save it in my memory box..but it would just last for few days..then..ntah mcmana dah terdelete!. so, i think its important to keep the record tru conventional way..the pen and paper..kalu dalam net who knows tetiba terdelete ka!habisss... tp kalau dah kemalasan mengatasi segalanya,tiada saper boleh tolong rite? i have abandon projects for adlina mcm scrap book etc..also terbengkalai..arrrghhh..im so bad at finishing things that i do! ala azam tahun baru belum tentu dapat selesaikan tahun nih punya project!huhuhu..im so bad with time management too...

takpe la, tahun depan cuba lagi..to be more organize..tp sebelum memori tahun nih kena delete with virus-virus dalam badan nih..yg melemahkan fikirin..,here some things that i can recall..apa yang akan dicakap ini adalah realiti dan perjalanan hidupku bersama this lovely girl name adlina, yang ingin dikongsi kepada sesiapa yg baca.

*Adlina tumbuh gigi and jalan agak lambat..tumbuh gigi (4batang serentak!) masa dia 12 bulan

*starts walking steadily masa umur 14bulan.

*rambut start kerenting between 16th month to 18 month

*start fussy eating around 18th month..isskk..so sad&stress too. .but im still trying to get her to eat something else. tp nasib masa baby puas dah bagi dia mcm2 homemade food yg dibuat..the purees...yummy...time tuh memang sangat seronok buat your own baby food..no worries about the garam&sugar intake..the preservatives lagi..masa tuh she loves every puree yg aku buat except mash potato..heeee...even selalu gak bagi dia advocado puree..konon2 nak bagi dia gemuk skit..but..tetap sama!i think its genetic la kot. Gambar kat atas tuh rasanya itu kali terakhir nampak dia suka makan kek.

*she is an active girl since baby..no,since in the womb!Doctor kata " Dia nih aktif sampai tak ingat nak makan..play and play.."..i just smiled.

*knows her Abcs and 123s around 22th month. i think becoz introduce to her flashcards every morning kot when she was a baby. try it, you'll be amazed! if your baby does not respond during the flashcard activity, it does mean that your baby is not absorbing or digesting those colorful cards!hehehhe..jangan ingat diaorg buat tak tau aja!oh yesss let the baby chew the cards..hahah.

*masa dia baby lagi dia suka main sorang2..atau main dgn bestfren dia..cewah baby2 dah ada bestfren.other mothers said she's 'anti-social'...well lain budak lain la perangainya.

*dah 2tahun nih, perasan dia suka kawan dengan org besar dari dia..even the teachers kat nursery pun cakap. ada dua situasi yg i tengok dia suka kawan dengan budak older. 1st masa raya tahun ni, balik kg kat johor, dia tak berapa nak main dengan ada cousins yg sebaya..dengan the twins pun dia tak layan sangat, tp dengan budak 5year old boy dia sanggattt suka berlari kesana sini ikut that boy..okey. di nursery baru nih her best buddy a 4year old boy named A*rmand...good looking boy plak tuh..pandai plak anak aku nih pilih2 and that boy is also fussy eater (thats what the teacher told me la)..elok la tu korang berkawan sama2 tak suka makan!kat rumah pun asyik sebut ajer nama budak tu..hahaha..kelakar la..

*i found that she was a high need baby..its not easy to pleased her.cries a lot.tp benda2 tu semua banyak mengajar tentang parenting..everybody wish they get a happy baby..and if you dont, try to adjust yourself to your baby's need.. and trust me its not easy, but once you find our own methods,stick to it and just keep searching for more!..suprisingly masa she was baby my dad yang always find a way to reduce the 'singing out loud' situation..his secret.."You must know her schedule, her rutine and dont missed that". haiyooo..sonang nyerr..maybe dia ada chemistry kot dengan adlina!hehehe.

*she doesnt like crowded places like shopping complex, kenduri2 ..she easily gets irritated out of nothing...you dont wanna know how fuss she is..memang mencabar kesabaran ooo..and yess everybody is looking..dont mind with that..aper tak pernah tgk budak nangis ker??!

Few tips of mine, Contoh kalau tak your baby/toddler tak suka crowded places ker, tapi kita still nak pergi juga, boleh pergi tempat-tempat yang tidak berapa ramai seperti shopping compleks yg kecik2. kalau pegi mall besar pun avoid pergi so mana places that need a lot of walking and taken a lot of time from one point to another.try limit to just places that you really wanna go and have a frequent pit stop..hehe.limit kat mall, not more than 3hrs or maybe 4hrs.

Kalau dia jenis tak boleh tidur dalam stroller, pastikan dia take a nap+minum susu or makan sebelum keluar..and sediakan langkah2 contigency yg boleh buat dia relax (bantal, pacifier ker kalu dia mmg pakai paci la, biscuits or fav toy..etc) you dont want to mess with 'cloudy' baby!. kalau dia suka main excalator, kalau boleh avoid using that, cuba naik lif ker or tangga. biasanya kalau umur 2 yrs old dah berani nak cuba naik escalator sendiri..

kalau time making new friends, i try not to introduce directly to her..she needs time to know her aquaintance..normally i would say..."look, baby la..hi baby.." or "look, its kakak la..kakak A..hi kakak". kalau dia refuse utk main sama, its ok, org kata budak lambat panas ..hehehe..hold her close,maybe she feel insecure or something..i dunno..kalau tak berjaya juga..hhhmm..dokong jer la jawabnyer!!!

*bercakap?skit2 saja...basic words. tapi belum buat short sentence.

oh well, i now tak ramai hadapi perkara ini, i just wanna share my journey with this girl of mine.. :>

The Funky Girls!

Wow lama nya tak menulis. iyer la sangat sibuk la..nak jaga hal consultant lagi. Ada la beberapa episod sepanjang tak menulis nih. Gathering la, raya la, open2 house la, wedding la, birthday party la..sekrang nih dah nak raya haji dah pun (tahniah kepada persada balqis,insya Allah awak dapat menunaikan haji ",).

Gathering yang aku maksudkan adalah gathering dengan budak SMPW utk batch 1993-1997 di P:laza H:tel KL, tp tidak la ramai sangat.but it was fun! So, ini la kami..the theme was Black&White..tp tgk la ada jugak colur2 yang sesat like yellow and red! At least my colour was grey=Black+white!hahahahhaha..Adlina pun join the theme too!

Gambar yang atas skali tuh dengan geng2 lama, tp cukup korum tu..group kitaorg..hehehe..segannya nak ckp.. ada byk versi nama la.. ' The funky Girls' la...' THe Zucchini Girls' la..pikir2 balik what on earth pilih nama zuchini..cool agak nya!totally no idea what we were thinking! tp ada group lain yang lagi ntah aper2 ntah nama nya..this one i still remember.. 'OTC Girls' which means..OTak Tak CEnter!hahahahahha..mlm tuh aku ngan yati memang gelak kuat tak ingat la bila recall balik those memories! Kenangan paling best masa gaduh ngan budak skolah lain..errr..rasanya diaorg start dulu.ada this one particular school bus yg budak2 dia..AAARRGGhhh.!!! kitaorg naik public transport.dia start baling, used condoms (yuckkss!), telur la etc.

Then ptg tuh juga lepas kitaorg kena baling tuh, terus kitaorg buat strategi. mind you kitaorg gurls school nak lawan dengan budak girls school+boys school (aler tak byk pun kan kat kl nih, korang boleh teka..hahha)

Esoknya. dah tak ingat la what was the thing tapi yg ingat ada belon isi air+ice+bawang & telur+tepung. yg best aku baling kat sorang budak lelaki gemuk yg tengah menjerit nganga mulut besar2, PHANG! belon berisi mcm tuh tepat ke muka dia!puas hati aku!hahhaha. Pastu esoknya plak terus kena panggil dgn Principle!dah la dia saaaaaannggatt garang..cuaaksss tak ingat!dia tnya apa sebenarnya terjadi..so we explained..bla bla bla..we got lucky enuff tak kena apa denda pun (seingat aku la).dah la time tu i was a prefect!hantu betul!! tp menjadi bualan hangat kat skolah la..senior2 pun tak brani buat macam tuh and guess what..we were in Form 2 tau! Bangga pun ada gaks..hehehe..kami nakal2 tp belajar baguss tau. love you all!!!

penatnyer II

*sempat lagi main pasir!sepak... sepak...pasir tuh..hhmm..org suruh tgk bunga laa..

*ingat nak suruh dia posing kat bunga, skali dia pegi lari kat aku!ish ish..beberapa percubaan juga gagal!takpe lah..nnt dah pandai posing, bleh amik gambo cantik2...heheheh.

ok la, itu aja for now...tataaaa...

ok la aku dah letak jugakla gambar2 c:yberview tuh..inilah gambar2nya di atas...gambar tidak terhad kepada permandangan alam sekeliling, tetapi makanan juga..hahaha.. tu gambar mee wantan...sangat best..kalu korang ada chance pegi sana, order la..gerenti sedap! gambar2 lain tuh are the views just 10 stepts away from my challet..kat sana kami ber bbq, aku sempat lagi la gi sauna & jakuzi..heehhe..

itu pegi c:yberview...ptg tuh after check out aku bawak gegirl krentos aku gi p:esta f:lora at putrajaya(gambar2 kat atas sekali,saje bagi korang view gambar dulu)..lagi pemandangan indah!kreatif pula tuh!!!tp hanya dpt enjoys sekejap ajer la coz gegirl tuh dah mood tak best..dah ler pegi dua org jer, tak terhandle la coz nak pegang barang2 lain lagi..tp sementara gud mood tuh sempat la snap2 sana sini..heheheh..

nak cerita panjang pun tak sempat..in hurry nih, esok gi KK plak..tinggal la gegirl ku..huhuhuh..ok la negeri di bawah bayu ..here i come!!!

penatnyerr

long time no write..been very very bz..for the record,i havent take any leave for 2months..until last monday..but still i have to work at home..so penat laaaa...gov servants do have a lot of work u know..not what most people think & say..or maybe its just a coincident where the task comes together at the same time...like hari raya laaa....blueekk..but bersyukur alhamdulillah Allah give me this job..and i didnt fall sick until i need to finish it up ontime..yeahhh..sometimes i hate datelines.. i think we improved a lot (and still doing it!), especially the delivering time..way much better...maybe there are still the typical old scholl attitude of g:ov servant(sometimes im so like that jugak!hehehe.) dont get me wrong there are thousands of intrepetation of this issue..i mean no harm..but i think this situation is the same all over the world..rite?

then im here in c:yberview c:yberjaya(am eating a peace of chocolate that has their logo on top of it)..nice place..the facilities are great (loved the baby cot..adlina tidur dgn best sekali!) the landscape..and rite now im having a time of my own before i pick adlina up..heheheh..sori no picture!ehhehe..nnt la yer. and eating tooooo much..there goes my diet down to the drain!hahahha...hhmmm...

rasa mcam nak buat mcm2..pegi p:esta f:lora laa , pegi spa laa etc..tgk la mcmana..best nyer tgk gambar2 carnationlover pegi sana..nak bergambo2..tp tgk la mcm mana...ok cukup la harini..


****kenapa komen kawan2 tak appear ek..i dunno whats wrong..please help!!!

c:oloring book

nak cite pasal crayon nih mcm2 citer aku ada..antaranya dulu pegi ke s:abah (KK) aku pegi utk buat keje la masa jadik RA dulu..pastu mcm tetiba rasa sangap yg teramat sangat...skali aku cari ler kedai stationary kat sana..jalan2 haaa..jumpa juga..pastu aku beli scetchbook & crayon..aiyoo..takde keje okey..pastu aku dah lukis2 kaler2 then baru puuaass hati aku ! crayon tuh sampe skrang ader (tu tak campur lagi crayon aku sendiri yg 36 batang !)pastu gegirl pun pakai.

then citer terbaru masa nak pegi tgk t:ransformer tuh(yahoo pegi tengok premier!)..aku saje jalan2 kat JJ nak nengok2 barang..lalu kat area stationary teruja plak tgk crayon..aku suka crayon....mula2 nak beli krayon jer..pastu terbeli plak c:oloring book yg mcm dah comot skit la cover dia..pastu lepas mkn laksa asam kat JJ (yum yum) tunggu hubby ku pergi amik barang kat kete..skali..this was happened

*see pictures below ~wink*..huhuhuhu. sempatla hubby snap2 gambar.. *crayon is not suitable children under 3years old* but i ignore that but with supervision...hehehheeh..boleh ker?



*haiyo..mukaku sangat bersungguh2!!!

*tadaaa..hasilnya.ada gak ler tukar kaler..ader ker lidah dia sama kaler dgn muka??think again maa...

kesimpulannya..aku mmg takde keje!!!!

pergi s:egamat

lamanyer tak menulis,bz sangat kot..agaknya la. nak citer pergi s:egamat nak hantar my lil sis ke i:tm nyer. nak daftar esok, dah part 5 dah rupanya dia..again sangat cepat masa berlalu. tak rancang pun nak ikut..tp dah abahku nak bawak cucu dia jalan2 so aku follow gak la (hhmm..sekrang attention dia pada cucu ler..). adik aku tuh dok sebelah gegirl krentos (nickname baru sbb rambut dia..style baru lepas umur setahun..huhu), so boleh la aku lepak2 skit.hehehe..bukan aper?gegirl tuh takleh pisah ngan makcik dia,takleh nampak kelibat makcik dia mesti nak sibuk2 dokong..dari dia baby lagi..ntah ler org kata chemistry la kot.

sampai area mana ntah (biasa la aku suka tido dlm kete!) dh sampai segamat la kot..dah nampak dah durian bukan main byk..korang suka durian tak?ada org tak makan durian tp tempoyak makan!pelik pelik..ehhee..ok sambung..dengan tak tahannyer..singgah ler..aku n parents mmg giler durian..lil sis taknak makan sbb dia malas ke takde mood ke ntah..pastu abah aku kluar ler statement kat cina durian tuh "budak2 sekarang mana mau mkn durian..dulu2 bapak kita bawak durian,sumua komplen tak cukup.sekrang beli dua bijik pun tak habis!" pastu cina tuh sambung "ya laa..nnt mulut bau busuk ckp sama kawan2!"hehahhaha..aku senyum ajer...maybe betul kot..hehehe..dulu time abah aku keje kat pahang mmg tak putus la bawak balik durian..cina bagi..sssaaanngatt heaven!dah ler adik2 (masa tuh diaorg kecik, adik yg besar pun tak makan) soo...aku ngan parents aku ler yg tukang habis..!huhuhuh..

last time makan durian kat segamat masa first time hantar lil sis nih ke i:tm..nak citer jugak ler..even thou ada antara korang yg dah tau citer tuh..hehehe..

time tu aku ngandung,aper lagik..org kata tak elok mkn durian byk2 time ngandung..panas!tp aku gagahkan juga!hahahahah (gelak jahat). nih nak citer makan durian masa time ngandung tuh la...parking kete seberang jalan..pastu lintas..siap duduk kat bangku kecik dia..makan and makan and makan..tiba2 nenek aku teriak dari sebarang jalan..(nenek aku pun ada tp dia malas nak lintas jalan..lg pun byk kete laju2).."ina..sudah2 la tuh!jgn makan byk2..lepas mkn tuh minum air dalam kulit durian!!" pastu aku mcm 'potong' nyer!hahahahha..tp aku nak habiskan jugak lagi beberapa bijik ..arrghh so degil!..skali..jeng jeng...ader la kete emas perdana dtg..alemak..no plate sangat la kenalnyer..isshhh..tak mungkin singgah kedai durian aku gakss...oh nooooo....langsung mmg terpotong la terus..hahah..terus bangun..sambil sengih2..."dato'..."pastu elok plak abah aku tuh nak tnya mcm2 kat dia..termasuk isu lalat yg saaaaanngggaaat byk kat i:tm tuh..aku pun isshh aper nih bahh...kitaorg tak tengok lalat ler!tp dia teruskan juga..aku aper lagi..angkat kaki lepak kat tepi2 skit ngan mak aku..nasib la d:to' tak kenal aku..huhuhuuh

kesimpulannya dengar ckp org tua..kalu dari tadi aku dah sudah mkn..takde ler terserempak..bukan aper..segan ler..hehehe..panjang nyer aku membebel..selamat makan durian & manggis..tengah musim laa..best ooo..

nothing to say...

takde aper la nak tulis..sbb bz sampai benda yg nak ditulis pun tak ingat..ok la beberapa benda yang telah aku buat (seingatku la) adalah:

1. meeting old frens (i want to meet more!)
2. beli chocs banyak utk frens & family
3. beli buku "i book of G:eneral I:gnorance" kat l:angkawi..murah jer..beli kat kedai runcit (rasanya buku2 yg org tertinggal masa tinggal kat resorts, they were a lot!novels in french pun ade)
4. beli c:loth d:iaper (CD)- dua ajaaa..utk gegirl aku try..i feel great..so does gegirl!CD nih mcm napkin baby tp design mcm disposable diaper, tak perlu la dan lipat mcm mak mak kita buat dulu..tp kainnya lebih bermutu dan sgt meresap! 2CD tak cukup maaa..masih nak beli lagi..yeah xpensive juga tp itu salah satu cara utk save our local landfill from reaching the max lifetime faster than they should! im not fanatic about it(maybe one day who knows) tp aku hanya sederhana *wink*
5. dapat benih2 sayur dan baja free from D:OA..best nya!tp projek menanam tak jalan lagi pun!*lazy gurl*
6. beli kek utk nenek dan mommy for mother's day..my grandma baru lepas operate jadi dia tinggal at our house dan mmg ramai visit..jadi celebrate ramai2 with aunties&uncles too..tp kek ciput aja!hahahaha. it was wonderful mother's day.
7. belikan gegirl her first pool..beli kat giant jer..murah(rm13 je) tp best!tp nak eyeing on bigger one..siap beli bola chap yg soak dalam air pastu buuussshhh balinnggg!! best!and gegirl enjoy the pool too!
8. 1st time naik a:ir a:sia pergi l:angkawi..not bad..tp leceh nak pegi L:CCT. lucky abah is around to send me there.
9. another way of expressing urself is (secara tak langsung): masuk local newspaper (kosmo) hehehehe...seronoknya few of my old frens yg lama giler tak keep in touch suddenly text me "wei sha..ko masuk paper ek harini?bukan main yer!" hahahha..1day of 'fame'..thanks anne *wink*

banyak juga benda2 yang belum di buat:

1. print gambar gegirl (goshhh dia dah nak masuk setahun setengah!) dan buat scrap book
2. baca buku yang dibeli dan buku2 yang belum habis baca (im a slow ready la..)
3. review thick proposal!! (im also slow in technical stuff)
4. projek tanam tanam
5. melancong (haii..bila la dpt pegi)
6. tgk wayang!! (byk citer best terlepas oooo..am not a vcd fan)
7. exersice or buildup stamina utk vollyball tournament (btw, aku kena kurus juga maaa)
8. need to improve myself..self motivate..tahan 2hari jer..hahaha

ok la gtg...sambung lagi!

xoxo

takmau....

yer...my gurl is..i wont say fussy eater, but had shown symtoms of fussy eater..risau betul bila anak kita taknak makan...dah ler dia slim shaddy and that makes me so worried all the time (quite frustated also, but not so much) ..tapi bila kat nurseri dia nak juga makan. tapi benda yg dia suka mcm biskut, aiskrim, yoghurt, meehoon kosong, keledek merah goreng, kekadang cucur (yg my grandma buat,tp yang i buat dia taknak!), cornflakes, pisang, bubur kat nursery (yg i buat mmg dia taknak..tp i rasa bubur i lagi best!). yang lain, mcm bila bagi jer geleng kepala taknak.. buat masa sekarang to top up nutrient yg dia tak ambil dari food, i kerapkan bagi dia susu & multivit drops. Dia selalu juga selsema & batuk.i bagi juga cod liver oil (she refused jugak, orange flavor tu..tp i pakse gak!) kesian pada dia, tp kena lah! so i browse on the net, jumpa nih..just wanna share wit u..i hope to find more about fussy eater,how can i cope with it and how to handle it with less frustation and mayb some tips that might work on her. she is now 15month weighted 8++kilo (i think not more than 8.6kg).

Fussy eaters

Is your toddler so fussy that mealtimes are being made a misery? Chances are it's just a phase - which has nothing to do with your cooking and everything to do with your child's need for independence! We asked child psychologist Dr Hannah Mortimer for her help with your most common mealtime problems while food expert Joanna Blythman shares her strategy on helping little ones love good food

• Common mealtime problems
• Six steps to fuss-free feeding

Common mealtime problems

Q: My two year old hardly eats a thing! She turns her nose up at virtually every thing I prepare and mealtimes usually end with us both in tears!

Dr Hannah Mortimer: 'From around 18 months onwards toddlers have a tremendous surge of independence and want their own way whenever possible. Food inevitably becomes a battleground because it's one area where little children know they can win! You should never force-feed your child. Instead, try to stay as relaxed and neutral as possible - as long as your toddler is growing and gaining weight then her fussiness won't be life-threatening. Meanwhile do what you can to take the pressure off mealtimes and add a bit of fun. Ask your daughter what she'd like for lunch, take her shopping with you and let her help prepare the food. You don't need to work too hard - little piles of bits and pieces presented attractively on a plate often appeal greatly to young children.'

Q: My 14 month old has such a limited diet. Practically the only foods she'll touch are bread, milk and mashed potato! She refuses meat and only occasionally eats a bit of apple or banana. Should I be worried?

Dr Hannah Mortimer: 'Before feeling guilty about what your daughter doesn't eat, take a look at what she does - not meal by meal or even day by day but over a week. Once you include snacks and drinks, you might be pleasantly surprised at how balanced her diet really is. Even if she refuses specific foods it doesn't matter, if she's eating the same healthy alternatives day in day out. Do carry on trying to introduce new tastes but instead of saying 'you must try this', encourage her with 'you can taste this if you want to'. Giving a toddler the choice can works wonders!'

Q: I can't get my 20 month old to stay at the table for more than a few minutes. After a couple of mouthfuls he wants to get down from his chair and go off to play.

Dr Hannah Mortimer: 'Unless they are really hungry, children are often easily distracted at mealtimes. Keep toys and television in another room and sit down with him so you can eat together - maybe not at every meal but at least once a day. At this age, children learn a lot through imitation. Check his appetite, too. Is he grazing too much and just not hungry enough when he comes to the table? Ideally he should have three small meals a day plus two snacks. Make sure the portions on his plate are small so he isn't overwhelmed by too much food. Keeping mealtimes short will also avoid struggles.'

Q: My one year old is such a messy eater - she won't use cutlery and most of her food ends up on the floor.

Dr Hannah Mortimer: 'Your daughter is still too young to use cutlery properly but it's important not to discourage her. Self-feeding is an important step towards independence and every time you praise her efforts you are boosting her confidence. Stay relaxed and be prepared for mess - spread a plastic sheet on the floor and give her a spoon for each hand. Thicker textures, like creamy yoghurt and cauliflower cheese stick to the spoon better than others, while finger foods - such as little sandwiches and pieces of fruit - cut down on the mess too. Remove the dish at the end of the meal if she starts to play with her food - and don't forget, this phase will pass!'

Q: My 18 month old has a great appetite but only for junk food like burgers, chicken nuggets, biscuits and crisp. How can I get him to eat more healthily?

Dr Hannah Mortimer: 'Toddlers often develop a taste for processed food but as they are high in salt, sugar and artificial flavourings they should be avoided. One approach is to not to have these types of food in the house. If it's not there, you can't offer it! At this age, your son can enjoy most of the meals the rest of the family is eating as long as there's no added salt or sugar. Offer really appetising alternatives and make sure you are a good role model - if he sees you having an apple as a snack, for example, he's more likely to try one himself. '

Six steps to fuss-free feeding

According to food expert Joanna Blythman, - author of the The Food Our Children Eat (Fourth Estate, £8.99) - it's never too late to turn a fussy eater into a healthy eater. Here are her top suggestions:

1 Eat together
A family meal once or twice a week can really help - a child who won't eat peas may change her mind when she sees how much everyone else enjoys them, and she may be encouraged to try new foods if she can have a spoonful from daddy's plate!

2 Be imaginative
Children often dismiss food with words like 'I hate cheese'. Try to pinpoint exactly what it is your child doesn't like - and find a way of serving it that makes the food more acceptable. When she says 'I don't like tomatoes' try 'Yes but your like baby cherry ones don't you. Or if she says 'I hate soups with bits', liquidise the soup and give it a name like 'dinosaur juice'.

3 Dish up lots of praise
Avoid saying 'she's so picky, she eats nothing', in front of your child. Instead focus on the positive, praising her whenever she eats something healthy: 'You've eaten your apple, well done!'

4 Get excited about good food
Try to get across the message that good food tastes and smells great in a way that junk food never can. Say things like 'I love these oatcakes, they're so crunchy' or 'This mango is the best thing I've ever eaten.'

5 Try, try and try again
Children's likes and dislikes change all the time and what's on the hate list today could be a favourite food next week - so be persistent. Keep offering a wide variety of fresh, nutritious foods and even a fussy eater can eventually learn to like them.

6 Give in gracefully
Sometimes you just have to accept that your child is not going to eat what you want her too. Just say something like, 'You didn't like it today but you might like it next week, mightn't you?'

Earth Hour|28th March 09|8.30pm

Apa itu Earth Hour?Padamkan suis rumah atau pejabat anda untuk vote pada Bumi kita yg tercinta... mengapa? Sebagai sokongan kita ke arah menyelamatkan Bumi yang semakin panas kerana penggunaan tenaga yang berlebihan. Bila suis ditutup, maka kurang la tenaga elektrik digunakan. Penggunaan tenaga yang berlebihan yang menyebabkan pelbagai masalah dunia seperti pencemaran, pemanasan global akibat green house effects, dan juga kesengsaraan hidup..siapa yang initiate nih? WWF sedang mengadakan kempen besar besaran ke seluruh negara dengan target 1000 bandar akan turut serta dalam kempen Earth Hour nih..segala vote anda akan diambilkira dan akan diberikan kepada Global Climate Change Conference in Copenhagen 2009. konferen ini akan menggantikan K:yoto P:rotocol (yang bertujuan negara ahli untuk mengawal dan menurunkan percentage [iaitu purata penurunan 5% agaist emission level in 1992 dlm tempoh 5thn bermula 2008-2012], pelepasan gas kesan rumah hijau (g:reen h:ouse g:ases eg. CO, methane, NOx, SOx etc. Melalui protokoll ini beberapa mekanisma diperkenalkan antara negara dalam senarai A:nnex1 (Industrialised nations) dengan negara dalam senarai A:nnex 2(negara maju yang membiayai negara industri untuk menjalankan projek2 yang berteknologi bersih) . Mekanisma itu adalah C:DM, C:lean Development M:echanism, E:missions T:rading dan J:oint I:mplementation.

jadi Vote la..Switch off lampu, kipas, aircond anda dsb.Promote to your frens and families..just 60minit..saya dah vote masa di PWTC..even my gurl pun support this!hehehe.Insya Allah saya laksanakan.. :>
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b:urns af:ter r:eading..har har har

i watch this with hubby...after all other movies yg we all nak tgk (including Ben Button and G:eng was on our list too!) semuanya penuh..i mean..okey..ada b:rad p:itt (drooliiing)..hahaha. my love at first site of BP was when i watch D:evil's O:wn in 1997?masa tuh dia belakun jadi Irish kalu tak silap..

ok back to citer pegi tgk wayang..so masuk lambat dlm 20min mcmtuh..so i was..'huh?brad pitt jadi sengal la!' i tot this will be interesting!mmg tergelak2 la..tergelak bukan sebab lawak diaorg buat (although genre movie nih comedy/crime..so..dalam ganas ada kelakar, but i prefer to call it sengal) tp gelak sebab ke 'sengalan' watak2 nya..esp watak C:had (P:itt) and L:inda L:itzke and H:enry (C:looney). yg lain watak serius..watak serius tp lawak pun ada..the CIA agents.....ini la movie yg ramaaaiii pelakon hebat belakon dalam simple comedy/crime movie(termasuk yg watak sampingan, J.K Simmons yg jadi bos P:ter P:arker of S:piderman..S:immons pun dah belakun dgn BP dalam citer T:he M:exican ) ..i cant remember this kind of movie genre with great actors/actresses in it..kalu ada let me know!nak tgk cd! Tp aper2 pun we all enjoy la this movie..eventhou i tak puas hati BP mati dlm citer nih!(aler not the first time dia mati dalam movie dia) okla here's the simpnosis i dapat dari website..so i quote it back. ..GC and BF are good combination..see la in Ocean's series.tp dalam movie nih diaorg tak related secara langsung..hanya tidak langsung sahaja..hahahahah. Tengok la citer nih:p

"Osbourne Cox (John Malkovich) is a CIA analyst who quits his job at the agency after being demoted ostensibly because of his drinking problem. He then decides to write a memoir about his life in the CIA. His wife, Katie Cox (Tilda Swinton), wants to divorce Osbourne and, at the counsel of her divorce lawyer, she copies many of his personal and financial files off his computer and onto an optical disc. Katie's lover is Treasury agent Harry Pfarrer (George Clooney). The disc eventually finds its way to Hardbodies, a workout gym. An employee of the gym, Chad Feldheimer (Brad Pitt) obtains the disc from the gym's custodian and ascertains that it contains classified government information. Along with his fellow employee Linda Litzke (Frances McDormand), he intends to use the disk to blackmail Osbourne - Linda needs the money to pay for cosmetic surgery. They call up Cox in the middle of the night, but he is not receptive. When blackmailing him fails, Linda decides to take the information to the Russian embassy. At the embassy, she hands the disk over to the Russians, promising that she will give more information afterwards. Because Linda and Chad don't have any more information, they decide to break into Cox's house.

By now Harry and Linda have met and begin seeing each other. Chad stakes out the Cox's house and breaks in when Harry and Katie leave. Harry, however, comes back, finds Chad, and accidentally shoots him in the face. Harry, thinking that Chad was a spy, disposes of the body. Days later, his paranoia increasing after murdering Chad, Harry leaves the Cox residence after a fight with Katie. On his way to leave he manages to tackle a man who has been trailing him for some time, thinking he was working for the CIA or some other government agency. After tackling him, Harry finds out that the man is working for a divorce firm hired by his wife who, it is later revealed, also has been cheating on him. Harry is devastated and goes to see Linda.

The next morning, Harry and Linda meet in a park. When he realizes that Chad was Linda's associate, he becomes paranoid and flees in terror ==>time nih C:looney sengal giler!

Meanwhile, Osbourne returns to his home only to find himself locked out because Katie changed locks in a final move in her secret divorce proceedings. He sleeps overnight in his boat, and the next day breaks into his own house with a hatchet. There he finds Ted Treffon (Richard Jenkins), the manager of Hardbodies, rifling through his computer looking for personal information. Due to his feelings for Linda, Ted decided to look for more information to give to the Russians, believing that the Russians had kidnapped Chad. Osbourne shoots Ted, who survives and runs out of the house. Osbourne grabs the hatchet and kills Ted in broad daylight.

"The movie ends by returning to the CIA's headquarters, where an official (David Rasche) and his director (J.K. Simmons) are trying to sort out what happened: Chad is dead, Ted is dead, Osbourne is in a vegetative state and dying after being shot by an agent while attacking Ted, Harry has been arrested trying to board a flight to Venezuela (but the CIA wants to let him leave anyway so he's out of their hair), and Linda has agreed to cooperate in exchange for the CIA financing her plastic surgery. The baffled CIA agents then decide that they have learned their lesson: to never repeat whatever it is that they did in this case; though they are still not clear what it is they did==>seriously CIA agents mmg blur kenapa dia sort out that case!!!

teater...

12 hb feb 2009 - saya & nidzam pegi tgk PGLtmIII di IB. Asalnya nak pegi tgk, tp biasalah tak sempat nak book pun, habis sudah...so,dgr ada extended show pada 22hb. so, dari putrajaya ke IB..nasib ada highway ptjy-kl tuh..setengah jam jer dah sampai..tau la lunch hour sure jam..dah sampai kaunter..terpapang "TIKET PGL III SOLD OUT"...whaatt?sold out oledi?aduuhh..kecewanya.kes kempunan juga,tp gagahkan juga pergi kaunter buat2 tanya ada tiket lagi tak..nak kasi puas hati la konon.."takde la kak, sori dah habis, tp ada la satu tiket ajer". i was so desperate.."sekejap yer i make a call dulu..dear, boleh tak i...bla bla bla".."ok la, i take that ticket"..tunggu punya tunggu tetiba ada beberapa tiket yg org lain kensel (i guess)..so amik ajer la tiket tu, since ada byk..but different price maa..nasib within budget (luckly).

sebenarnya, bukannya tak pernah tgk PGLtm pun, masa season I tgk juga...i got the cheapest ticket..sebenarnya tak kisah tiket mana2 pun, tp minah kat depan i tuh, asyik duduk kedepan tak bersandar..haiii..nampak kepala dia ajer la alllll the way! bengang betul ngan minah tuh dulu,iyerla paham la nak better view..hello, aku plak dpt 'very good view'. masa tu tgk tak tgk ajer la..cant remember much.

tp kali ni, SANGATTTT puas hati!!alhamdulillah dpt jugak tgk..hehehe..goose bumps.. okey!suka i:da a.k.a B:ayan, her voice so biggg..and mmg ada jazzy kind a voice..ntah la mcm kena sgt la suara dia ngan watak dia as the nanny of P:uteri.loved her! season III ada mcm magic show..hooohuuuu..boleh tukar2 org sekelip mata & byk lagi..best!the props pun best..there were scenes that make u forgot to breath.

Ia adalah cinta pandang pertama dan cinta agong G:usti P:utri R:aden A:jeng R:etno D:umilah (T:iara) dengan H:ang T:uah (Stephen-R:ahman Hughes) yang dihalang oleh abang kepada P:utri, A:dipati(A:C Mizal) kerana ingin menunaikan hajat S:ultan M:elaka sebagai bonus melindungi M:ajapahit dan hubungan baik dua kerajaan ini akan terus kekal. dan ketika itulah kehebatan cinta mereka diuji dengan dugaan kesetiaan dan pengorbanan. Mereka sanggup berkorban demi untuk bersama (ini lah dia kalau org kata sanggup berkorban jiwa dan raga, lautan sanggup diredah, gunung sanggup di daki!). Pendek kata PGLmt memang extravagant and amazing! Thank you for the beautiful music, that was blown me away..Glad i was there...

Dia dah 13 month. kejap sahaja masa berlalu.10 things about her:
1-ada 5 gigi..4 gigi tumbuh serentak at 12thmnt; sekarang tgh galak drooooooling!
2-belum pandai jalan...sikit lagi..but lately nih dia malas practice.. :< but suka tgk dia merangkak lagi!;
3-pandai salam & cium tgn..tp mesti lidah keluarkan lidah..so ppl would have extra saliva as a bonus!!hehehe
4-words yg boleh disebut:abah & alya (sounds ayyah)..huhuhu no mommy
5-still wants milk 2 to 3times everynite..w/pun ptg dah makan.still like newborn maaa...lambat susu mean loud 'music' kedengaran sambil susu dibuat...
6-likes to eat at nursery..tapi kalu kat rumah..kena paksa mkn..maybe she likes to eat with her frens around. sometimes eat more that her bigger size frens..2 mangkuk tuh..
7-she loves her soother and bantal peluk very much. she make herself sleeps with pacifier and the pillow on her face. that's her habit since born!
8-At 12 month she weighted ~7.3kg. Doc said not to worry as long as she's healthy and active!hhmm..but deep inside i like her to gain more!
9-she loves to 'read' books especially the cardboard books..hopefully kekal sampai besar.kalau majalah, habis la kena koyak!
10-Tak suka kena potong kuku..she will struggle herself until i stop clipping her nails.

a visit to m:elaca z:oo versi II

sebenarnya tak habis lagi nak write up post yg lpas, tp saje publish bcoz tak tau la kalu dah simpan as draft pastu nak publish balik..sungguh den tak tau..ada citer lagi nih..mcmana nak describe eh..senang mcm nih la..tentang etika kita bila di zoo..

DONT THROW STONES AT THE ANIMALSSSSS!!!!!!

geram jugak bila tgk org sajer baling batu pada animal..mcm nak provoke that animal supaya ia bagi response or marah or terkam kat diaorg or whateva the intention was..giler laaa...baling batu kat lions..batu besar plak tu..baling and baling sampai sipi nak mengenai lions tu..sambil bergelak ketawa and sambil buat signal 'marilah kalu brani!' kat lion tuh....dah kehabisan batu, yg mak mak carik batu lain kat kawasan sekeliling sampe dpt..aku tgk aje gelagat diaorg..nak tegur bukan main ramai diaorg nih..kalu budak2 aku brani la nak tegur..ini mak mak and bapak bapak org..anak2 kecil tengok sambil bersuka2..diaorg ingat ini mcm sarkas ker aper..aper masalah diaorg nih eh.sayang nya kita pergi z:oo utk learn something about animals tapi budak2 tu mesti dah ada in mind..oh its ok to throw stones at animals..especially lions!aku buat2 tangkap gambar diaorg..ada la sorang tu prasan, dan dia pun mcm cuak jugak la..biarkan..geram betul!kebetulan mmg pegang camera...

kemarahan terubat dengan makan 'm:agic ice cream' aper yg magik nyer..org tu buat ice cream..bukan ice cream la tp air karbonated (yg dah dibuang gasnya) dibekukan dalam masa yg singkat dah jadik sebatang ice cream..tp masih geram jugak..carik mcm management office macam tak nampak plak. isshh kalu singa tu ngamuk sakan kan nyayer tu..fuhh..haaa..lupa plak, sebelum tempat lion tuh ada la tempat Nicky..aler tiger cub yg telah diselamatkan oleh org daripada masuk periuk kat kedai makan...pastu t:he S:tar sort of adopted dia and last year dia dah branak..and jadi front page lagi..heee..how cute..

ok la...pegi z:oo tgk diam2 ajer..nak baling batu, pegi la baling kat org i:srael..hhhmmm...

a visit to m:elaca z:oo

long holiday haritu, saje2 pergi Melaka, but dont know where to go.then ended up kat air keroh. mula2 masuk kat area m:ini m:sia, then i decided nak pegi zoo since dah lama berhajat nak visit zoo m:elaka..masa sampai mcm nak start hujan..so, siap2 bawak payung bagai..dah beli tiket, then tolak la a:dlina masuk entrance..ramai gak yg bawak babies..babies as small 3-5 pun ader..hhmm..rajin betul diaorg bwk (mind u the babies takde sibling lain yg besar pun..maybe the parents yg nak visit)..yeah most of the time babies tido ajer..tp takpela good exposure..plus the goodness of matahari! ok la z:oo m:elaka, well maintain..took some pictures..and baru tau some few interesting facts..binatang yg mcm dlm citer M:adagascar tuh..yg nyanyi 'i like to move it move it' to is a lemur..a mouse lemur i think. found most at madagascar.yee..i did'nt watch MadagascarII..